OPINION MATTERS

We live in a changed society with changed modus operandi, in a changed world with changed attitude...!!
Here men ask women's before deciding anything, her suggestions matters, they ask her before shifting base, they ask her before starting a new business, ask her before leaving a job or either starting one..!!  Not because they are getting incapable of doing so.. no just because they find it more safe to do it together.
A women's idea is not circumscribed to mere decorating drawing rooms or frying the same daal differently, Her calculations are trusted she isn't that dumb in accounting ,although she's home manager since eternity but never applauded ,now men trust them in office as well.. she is free in the limitless sky to fly high because she have someone to motivate her throughout, either her father, her brother, her friend, her boyfriend, her husband or her grandfather as well.. living like this makes you feels so enthusiastic, you feel vauleable you find yourself worthy.
Her silence is not what today's men want they want to listen to her they want to support her.. even when she's scolded and beaten up in her in-laws house, her parents not just ask her to stay silent and compromise, they support her to lead a life alone as well.. it feels good to see a girl deciding to live her whole life alone and her parents respecting her decision, she's a single mother and the new society don't judge her... She's allowed to marry the love of her life because she's found  capable of deciding her wrong and right, women's can lead a whole men team, Today's men have changed minds and  due to some morons we should not judge them all....!!
Tried to flip the coin from the increasing insecurities for a girl to the respect she had gain in the society is all due to these men who have changed opinion towards her...!!
Yes it's a changed world where our opinion matters..❤
My parents ask me before deciding something ,I have friends who ask me before doing something I feel good suggesting them but the best feeling is when they literally apply it.. you feel important and we all have that bunch of people who make you feel worth, who don't just let you be a girl who's limit is upto the kitchen.
In the midst of the terror all around I have gave you a reason to feel proud of yourself.. because your existence matters in many people's life.. and yes your opinions too..😋🙌

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