Those 7 day's..

yes I'm a girl and once in a month i bleed..
I'm not bashful of it..i proudly accept the fact..i never resisted playing, walking, jumping, roaring.. in those days
it pains alot but i can bear it forlone..no one around me knows that I'm bleeding but i can fondle it every single second.. everytime menstruation comes and I'm like shit..it came again..!!
it's okk with my mom and my family..they haven't put any such diminution.
But i have seen others and gleaned from my friends they aren't acceded to enter kitchen, they can't cook food for any male member of the house, they can't sit on sofa's, they can't even take water on their own..
This is how those 7 day's are passed..!!
as usual no one is allowed to pray..
after all this harrowed day..It pains alot at night
we shriek.. we weep in dark..we never say anyone what's happening with us,what we are esteemed of..!!
just because from the very first day we are taught that menustration is a very reticent matter..!!
although everyone know about it..but we can't talk of it candidly.. it seems eerie..!!
why..?
it's a natural phenomenon as a boy gets beards as he reaches his teen...similarly a girl gets her menstruation..!!
so why we are creating so thespianism.
girls have now reached each niche of the world they are proliferating so frequently then why these dictums and decree for them..!
take it quotidianly..
treat us normally..
we are living beings too...

why cant i talk to my fater and tell him it's paining & i had my periods on..!
why can't i ask my friend to talk to me at night cz I'm not gonna sleep..cz of this pain..!
But time had changed a bit..these days guys know everything and they talk about it patently.. without demurrating
what about those who laugh of it..
simply i would say they are imprudent and mindless..!!

that mental aid is requisite for a girl to deal with these periods society is recasting..
so,ask your mom's to discard those conformist rules from you
talk freely..walk freely..
be proud to bleed..be proud to be a girl
cz in future you are going to produce your lil one..
so, love bleeding❤

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