Those special ones

The title suggests family, but I'm talking about the extended family culture the family of our loved one's or the loved one.. that one person is sufficient who tries to understand you because no one will ever surpass this tag of trying to understand, makes you laugh, somehow Pampers you.. we are habitual of one thing since we were a mere toddler, "pamper" we have been loved by all of our family members from Grand parents to the little ones..  we have expected that special treatment from our parent's till now I guess.
Till our teen ages our parents used to be our bestest Friends they would have understood us the way no one would ever be able to.. then suddenly thing's got changed a bit we started having friends who turned out to be our secret sharer's, our secret reserve's... We started trusting them more then anyone else and a thought started filling the void between we and our parents that they aren't of our generation and they'll not understand us..!!
After 17 or so, a new thing tries to encapsulate us and that is melodious "first love" and their stories from our friends and sometimes out of your friends pressure, or more affection or many other unbelievable circumstances you somehow fall into it..
All of sudden things start to fly.. you are giggling all along, butterflies all around..that filmy melodrama.
And after thousands of.. it's not working anymore to sorry.. your love somehow completes it's graduation, then comes another level now that you've totally believed that no one in this entire world understands you or cares for you the way that someone does, and there's the trap and you're stuck into it
I would call that,that someone could be your bestest friend, your brother, your sister, your cousin sister, your mumma, your papa or anyone..!!
Till our teen age's it's mostly our mothers, few exceptions have there secret reserve's as their fathers...like me...!!
And then your friends...and siblings
Well someone manage to have so called boyfriend's too... But I don't find it worth it's just a childish stubborn wish nothing more then that..!!
And I'm familiar with some of the most irregular and unexpected childish love stories.. loving your teacher, loving your senior, loving auntie's and much more..!!
Well the reason why I have jotted this down is something else..
It's not about revealing someone's love for anyone in their lives or something else it's just to discuss the love and stuff done in the name of love these days...with the one's in their teen age's.
Like your friends flaunt alot sometimes about their Status sometimes lifestyle,
In the name of trying for once kids are getting addicted to many of the unwanted stuff.. alcohol.. nicotine...and much more I guess drugs too..!!
Having multiple relationship's is quite common in their lives..then only they'll be called studd.
Physical relationship is not far from their reach with series of Oyo's around.
Abusing parents is a fashion,
Comparing with others and matching them too is turned out to be a habbit.

With so much of the Chaos around no one's gonna see the efforts and the level of understanding our parents show, they just keep aside their lives their needs to make their kids smile,
Parenting and upbringing of a kid is itself is an art, the challenges are huge.. matching with the changing scenario remains the first and foremost, setting a standard is taken to another level, fulfilling our wishes is what they live for, and forgiveness is unmatchable,
From all the blunder's we make, and the horrendous deeds we did they still manage to love us..!!
This is what we call presence of God on Earth.
Have that someone special always in your life because without them your survival isn't possible but, one more thing is also sure that your parents are irreplaceable, and the bestest thing life has given to you, never abuse, don't be absurd.
Respect, live, love...!!
And have that someone special always.. but first your parents..!!